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Bonnie Vee Wingelaar, who was born on May 7, 1945, in Salt Lake City, Utah, and passed away on July 23, 2026, in Lakeland, Florida, lived a life marked by quiet strength, steady devotion, and deep love for her family.
Bonnie was the daughter of Merrill and Bessie Butcher, both of whom preceded her in death. She was also preceded in death by her siblings, Shirley Ledbetter and Gordon Butcher. Those who knew Bonnie understood that she was a simple woman in the finest sense of the word, someone who found contentment in home, family, faith, and the familiar blessings of everyday life. She was a homebody by nature and cherished the peace of a quiet life, preferring meaningful moments and close relationships over attention or fanfare.
Bonnie was a faithful member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, and her life reflected the values she held dear. She carried herself with humility and grace, and her gentle spirit left a lasting impression on those around her. Whether caring for her loved ones, enjoying time at home, or offering a kind word, Bonnie lived with sincerity and warmth. Her faith was an important part of her life, and it provided her with comfort, purpose, and strength through the years.
On June 2, 1985, Bonnie married Johan Wingelaar, and together they shared many years of companionship and devotion. Johan passed away in January of 2025, and their reunion in eternity is a source of comfort to those who loved them both. Their marriage was built on steadfast commitment and mutual care, and the years they shared were filled with the ordinary blessings that make a life beautiful. Bonnie treasured her role as wife, and she honored her marriage with loyalty and love.
Bonnie was a beloved mother to Bobbi Jo Key, Danny Dale Key, and Amity Louise Key, and she also mourned the loss of her sons Walter Key, and Skippy Doyle Key, who preceded her in death. Her children were among the greatest joys of her life, and she took pride in each of them. She loved her family deeply and was grateful for the many moments they shared together over the years. Her legacy lives on through her children, her many grandchildren, and her great-grandchildren, all of whom will carry forward the memory of her love, her steady presence, and her gentle example.
Bonnie will be remembered for the quiet dignity with which she lived her life. She did not seek recognition, but she gave freely of herself in the ways that mattered most. Her home was a place of comfort, her presence was calming, and her love was constant. She appreciated simple pleasures and found beauty in the familiar rhythms of daily life. In a world that often moves too quickly, Bonnie reminded those around her of the value of patience, faith, and devotion to family.
Those who survive her will remember her as a woman of kindness, resilience, and unwavering love. Her family and friends will hold close the many memories of her laughter, her gentle manner, and the peaceful strength she carried throughout her life. Though she is no longer with them in body, her influence remains in the hearts of those who knew and loved her.
Bonnie Vee Wingelaar's life was a testament to faith, family, and quiet grace. She will be deeply missed and lovingly remembered by all who were blessed to know her.
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